2 Samuel,  chapter 13:

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A painful account of
Date Rape  and  Incest
from the Bible:  part 1

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1 . . . Absalom, David's son, had a sister who was very attractive. Her name was Tamar.
Amnon, also David's son, was in love with her.
2 Amnon was obsessed with his sister Tamar to the point of making himself sick over her.
She was a virgin, so he couldn't see how he could get his hands on her.
3 Amnon had a good friend, Jonadab, the son of David's brother Shimeah. Jonadab was exceptionally streetwise.
King David lived in a time when God had not said explicitly that a man should have just one wife. So David had several wives and each of them headed their own home.
Thus Amnon did not grow up regarding Tamar as his sister. Absalon saw her as his sister. But Amnon, who grew up in a different household, just regarded Tamar as another girl in his circle of friends.
Remember the man Jonadab. He is an example of someone you should NEVER have as a friend in your life.
4 He said to Amnon, "Why are you moping around like this, day after day — you, the son of the king! Tell me what's eating at you."
"In a word, Tamar," said Amnon. "My brother Absalom's sister. I'm in love with her."
Whenever you think you're in love, but this makes you mope around, almost ill, and obsessed,  you can be sure this is NOT true love at all.
At best it is what can be called "puppy love" or infatuation or just plain sexual lust, which you must bring under YOUR control, lest it destroy you and others.
True love always causes us put the concerns of the other person first.
Puppy love usually evaporates after a while.
5 "Here's what you do," said Jonadab.
"Go to bed and pretend you're sick. When your father comes to visit you, say, 'Have my sister Tamar come and prepare some supper for me here where I can watch her and she can feed me.' "
6 So Amnon took to his bed and acted sick.
When the king came to visit, Amnon said, "Would you do me a favor? Have my sister Tamar come and make some nourishing dumplings here where I can watch her and be fed by her."
Should their father, David, have seen through Amnon's request?
Or was Amnon such a practised deceiver that he could convince anyone that he was really ill?!
(The Message Bible)